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Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Wise Words

Use Words to Support and Comfort.


Okay, let’s review the previous posts.  We found verses in Proverbs to remind us that silence is a virtue.  So…when should we refuse to remain quiet and speak up?

Proverbs 25:11 reads: “A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.”

Solomon presents a beautiful word picture to illustrate wise words. The lesson here is that we should consider content and timing when revealing our thoughts.  Perhaps a child, loved one, or employee needs a bit of correction.  When adjustment is given in a loving, kind way and at the appropriate moment, it is usually received in the same spirit by the one hearing it.  Words we fine-tune and give properly, are apples of gold in settings of silver.  Such appropriate conversations soothe a soul with riches and can alter behavior.  Hmmm. Gold apples set in silver, that icon would make a fine piece of jewelry, don’t you think? 

Mother Goodness, the angel mentor to Sarah, appears often in the Sarah series to give Sarah delicate apples of gold set in silver.  Not that Sarah always remembers the lessons, but Mother Goodness knows how to deliver the messages in a kind manner.  Sarah, the haphazard angel, identifies with humans.  We are erratic and forgetful with our speech patterns and actions.

Proverbs 31:8-9 says:  “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute.  Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy.”

Most of us know innocents who can’t defend themselves.  The unborn child is one of them.  The Prolife Group communicates for these little guys, and we should.  How about the homeless?  They exist in a low state and often find it difficult to change their position.

We can voice concern and evoke change for vulnerable people and we can treat everyone fairly. Kind confrontations on behalf of others are wise words.

How about looking for ways to share gracious words and encouragement to others this week?

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Watch What You Say!

Watch What You Say!

"Sticks and stones may hurt my bones, but words will never hurt me." 

Remember that ditty?

The rhyme isn't true.  Words can bring harm

 In our last discussion about wisdom, I spoke about a few of wisdom’s attributes.  Protecting others from an onslaught of ugly words is a powerful way to act judiciously.

A wife called me recently.  Her husband discovered a plastic lid missing from a spice jar in the kitchen. Their conversation went like this.

Husband: “Where is the lid to this?”

Wife: “I don’t know. Maybe it got accidentally thrown away.”

Husband: “If I were as stupid as you, I’d kill myself.”

Beg your pardon?  He assumed she threw the thingy away and lashed out in his anger.  Wise speech?  Not hardly. How did those foolishly spoken words make the newly wed wife feel?  She tried to confide her pain to me but found no words to describe her sorrow.

Proverbs 18:19 says, “An offended brother (wife or husband) is more unyielding than a fortified city and disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.”  Verse 21 follows with, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” NIV.

Keeping silent when one is angry, and it is a challenging proposition, but it remains the best technique to prevent heartache and misunderstanding.

In another post, I confessed my wordy mouth.  I told you how I once kept a jar of M&M candies on my desk and called them my “Zip Lip Pills.”  When I felt the need to offer my opinion—and too often this was the case—I’d grab a handful and chop down on them. Sometimes they worked and often the “Pills” didn’t. 

I recorded this incident in my book: Sarah: Laney’s Angel.  Laney tried the technique of candy pills to keep from sassing her boss.  I laughed when I wrote it.  Those “pills” didn’t do Laney much good either.

Guard our words? Hard to do. How do you refrain from speaking hurtful words in anger?  Some people count to ten.  Others walk away.     What can we do to develop a think-before-we speak mentality?


Saturday, July 5, 2014

A Wise Person

 Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.” Proverbs 1:5 NIV.

Interesting Proverb, isn’t it? 

What makes a man or woman wise?  Could it be IQ?  Might conscience have anything to do with it?  How about talent? Character? Personality? Genetics?

Solomon failed to consider any of these attributes in his writings. He wanted us to think about the actions and decisions God expects from us.  As we study Proverbs, we learn a person who makes noble choices becomes a wise man.

In this verse, we also find an astute person listens. Now me?   I spend a lot of time talking.  Solomon wrote about that too.  “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent and discerning if he hold his tongue.” Proverbs 17:28 NIV.

I once kept a jar of M&M candies on my desk and called them my “Zip Lip Pills.”  When I felt the need to offer my opinion—and too often this was the case—I’d grab a handful and chop down on them. Sometimes they worked and often the “Pills” didn’t.  I found I was better off when they did and I refrained from speaking. Silence forced me to listen.

Sometimes keeping mute is best.  When one is silent, he can hear and add knowledge about a situation.

The Proverb says a discerning person becomes judicious and perceptive.

Okay, that bring us to another word—guidance.  From Solomon’s writings, we learn the king expected people to seek God’s truth regarding life.  When we realize God wants us to absorb and apply His leadership to our beings, we become wise.

Oh my!  All that sounds a bit much like a riddle.

And quite often, the ability to make correct choices at the appropriate time remains a mystery.
Come along with me.  Let's see if we can figure out some of this wisdom stuff together.


Friday, July 4, 2014

July 4, 2014

"God reigns over the nations. God is seated on His holy throne." Psalm 46:8 NIV.
As the United States of America celebrates her 238th birthday today, let's remember that the Founding Fathers sought God to direct them in the formation of this nation.
That's an important fact.
Especially in this day when a minority wish to remove all visages of God.
July 4.
A day to remember our past and pray for our future.

"Taxation without representation!" The battle cry rang among the original thirteen colonies.  The peoples living on this side of England had no desire for forced taxes to England's Kind George III without representation.

British troops soon arrived to subdue  the disgruntled colonists--making matters worse.

When June 11, 1776 came, the colonies' Second Continental Congress met in Philadelphia and formed a committee whose to draft a document and sever ties with Great Britain.

The committee included Thomas Jefferson, Benjamin Franklin, John Adams, Roger Sherman and Robert R. Livingston. Jefferson, eloquent writer, wrote the original draft.   Eighty-six changes later, the Continental Congress officially adopted the final version on July 4, 1776.

July 6, The Pennsylvania Evening Post  published the document.

July 8, 1776, the first public readings took place in Philadelphia's Independence Square to the ringing of bells and band music.

One year later, July 4, 1777, Philadelphia marked Independence Day by adjourning Congress and celebrating with bonfires, bells and fireworks.

The custom eventually spread to other towns. The day was marked with processions, oratory, picnics, contests, games, military displays and fireworks.

June of 1826, Roger C. Weightman wrote to Thomas Jefferson and invited him to come to Washington D.C. to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence.  Jefferson declined the invitation. He was gravely ill,and this was to be his last letter.

"May it be to the world, what I believe it will be ... the signal of arousing men to burst the chains ... and to assume the blessings and security of self-government. That form, which we have substituted, restores the free right to the unbounded exercise of reason and freedom of opinion. All eyes are opened, or opening, to the rights of man. ...For ourselves, let the annual return of this day forever refresh our recollections of these rights, and an undiminished devotion to them."

Thomas Jefferson
June 24, 1826 Monticello
1870, Congress established Independence Day as a holiday.

Monday, June 30, 2014

Sarah and the Scary Ferris Wheel

Coming July 30
Blurb for Sarah and the Scary Ferris Wheel

Sarah is given a new mission—to link Robert Johnson and Brittany Lee—two people she encountered while trying to bring a couple together on that irksome computer Internet dating service. Oh sure, she’d done it. Not without trial and a lot of error, but with this fresh assignment, trouble would come, she was positive.

If she hadn’t grumbled about the computer, maybe the Lieutenant wouldn’t have ordered her to ride the Galveston Ferris wheel. She’d seen the huge rotation device built over the Gulf of Mexico, and the very thought of a ride on that monster made her nauseous. 

What if she throws up on the humans?

Oh merciful heavens!  Why did the Superiors give such tasks to bumbling angels anyway?

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Where to find a date.

Have you tried on-line dating?  One out of four meet their mates that way these days.
Check out how Sarah introduces a couple.
She's a riot.
But they are now a happy couple.

Friday, May 30, 2014

Party Time!

You are invited to our party!  Tonight. 6 to 9pm EDT.  I'm in central time, but I hope whatever time zone you are in, you'll stop by and say hello.  I'm giving away three signed print books.  Others are giving gift cards, eBooks, etc. Ask us questions, we'd love to answer them.

Oh!  Sarah, my little dyslexic angel is coming too.  Do you have questions for her?  Maybe you'd like to suggest an adventure for her.  She loves to visit the humans.

We'll have games, jokes and all kinds of fun.

Prizes & book lover fun! Join the authors of Prism Book Group for a PARTY! Host authors include Gay N Lewis, Carlene Havel, Ruth Roberts, Brooke Williams, and Kevin Mark Smith. Many more will be in attendance. Prizes include a $25 gift certificate to Amazon, ebooks, & more! Come meet your favorite Prism author, mingle, and win!

Sarah is looking forward to the party.  It's the first one she's ever been invited to.  Oh sure, she's been to other events....but no one knew she was there.  She wants to know what to wear.  I suggested she come in her simple attire, and barefoot is okay by me.  She can't walk in shoes very well anyway.
See you tonight on Facebook! Just click on the Prism Book Bash to attend 6:00 EDT.